He doesn't get me Wet anymore!

 Me me and my SO have been together for 3years and always been very sexually active atleast 3 or more times a week and recently can't get me wet! I still find him attractive and honestly I am still very much in love with him, but are sex life is getting so boring! We have almost no foreplay anymore Unless it involves me sucking dick for an eternity with nothing done to me in return! And on the slight occasion he does give me some foreplay it's for less than 10 minutes and happens when I'm in the middle of teasing him! So even when I start off wet My pussy ends up dry 10 minutes into having sex! The sad part is I want to have sex with him more than anything because I know for a fact he's capable of making me feel good!  I enjoy having sex with him when my pussy is wet when it's not it hurts and it turns me off  when he try's to keep going ! We have tried lube but he's not a fan at all! I need advice I want to enjoy making love to my best friend again!