I'm soooooo ANGRY!!!

There's a girl a work who's pregnant (unplanned) and she found out what she was having yesterday. She has a little girl already and she found out she was having another girl and she said she is "totally devastated"  and she really is!! Is it me or is this very selfish? I've been trying for 7 years for another baby and really really wouldn't mind if it was a girl or boy! I know it's not her fault I can't seem to get pregnant but jeeeze ungrateful cow comes to mind!