My husband and I have an almost 3 year old and we always talked about and agreed to having one more kid. We both wanted a 2nd child and want our son to have a sibling. However, we said last July we would try but when July came, he didn't even want to have sex (didn't say it but he nvr went for my passes or if I told him) and sex seemed to became pressured. Finally, I told him we didn't have to try for a baby but let's at least make love but if he wasn't ready for a baby then to let me know so I can change my mindset and not feel disappointed. He finally admitted he wasn't ready but promised next year (now) that we would try. So here we are July and we're back to last year. We haven't had sex since June and he always says he's tired. I asked him again if he just wasn't ready but all he says, it happens when it happens like our first son but you have to have sex for that to happen. My ovulation week starts tomorrow and idk what to do. I feel sadden to think we won't have another one but if we wait any longer, I just don't want to try. I'm 31 and want my kids to be close in age. What should I do? Just let it go and let him be at his own pace or just call it off? The longer we wait, the less time I have to be at home with the baby before I go back to work (teacher) since we want an April early May baby. Any advice?