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My partner was a 41 year old virgin when we met. The first time we attempted sex, he literally could not get it up. I almost didn't see him again. I decided to wait and go slowly. The next time, he was much less nervous and actually enjoyed himself. Now, as much as I want a baby, somedays I don't even want him to look at me. I'm a bit moody.
Erectile dysfunction
Hey guys! So I just had a hook up experience where the guy could not get it up. I asked him if it was me and he said he wants to do everything but his mind is not connecting. I believe him. But i just didn't know what to say. I think i might have made him more nervous. But anyhow my question is. Have you guys had an experience like this? And how would u handle the situation and what would u say?
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It was awkward. Not going to lie. I thought it was me but it was him. I didn't say much i just said its okay it must happen to a lot of guys. 😅We ended up not talking anymore... I think i made the situation very awkward... 🙄
Li
We tried again but it was worse. I was embarrassed. Maybe for him I didn't want him to feel bad. It was pretty much horrible.
Ha
yea it was super awkward and i didnt know how to handle it. i felt like i made it worse. i feel like i made him insecure because of the questions i was asking. i told him we could try again some other time.
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