I've been with my husband for 3 years. We have a 9 month old son. I love him so much, but I feel like he's not trying anymore. He quit a really good job and I've recently applied to college to get my BA. He found another job, but he's screwing it up too. He is smoking pot every day and barely pays attention to our son. So not only am I starting school next month , but I'm also working a part time job to pay our bills. We have 2 roommates which are his long time best friends. I was talking to one tonight about how his split from his Baby mama went. I feel like he's not trying to be there for us anymore and he is just going back to being a kid again. Well our roommate went/is going through the same thing. I'm scared that if I leave he'll completely give up and move on, but if I stay things will never change. I'm trying to do what's best for our son. And he seems to be doing very little. I'm so confused and I don't know what to do anymore.