Fingering and limits

So my boyfriend and I went on vacation together and we were up late watching a movie and things led to another and he ended up fingering me. 
I had already told him my boundaries which were pretty tight bc I want to save myself for marriage but this still happened.
Background: I am very religious and have a great relationship with God that's why I'm a little upset with myself 
1.  Technically I know I'm still a virgin but how bad is this 
2.  This was obviously a bad personal choice and I regret it as I thought I might 
Thoughts???!?!!?