The waiting game

So I've been talking to this guy on and off for 6-7 weeks. We click very well. Talk about anything and everything. About 2 weeks ago we hooked up. (This whole story is gonna sound really bad bc I'm not giving the full thing lol). Anyway it was my first time doing anything with anyone and I had a bit of a pregnancy scare even though we didn't do "it" so I resented seeing him the next couple of days even though I should of I think? Anyway the passed week and a half he's been awol and he knows it. He messaged me saying he's sorry he's been awol, he's been going through some shit etc.. He said that when he "gets his shit together he will be with me every minute" and he was like "it's killing me that I can't be with you" and to "please wait for me baby." So the next night he was going to come and see me. I mentioned that I had my period and he was like it's okay we can just watch a movie or something. Then when it was near the time for him to come he didn't respond so I just went to sleep. At 1am he texted "sorry I fell asleep while waiting and I wanted to see you so bad" and I said "it's okay" since then I haven't heard anything from him since teusday at 1am. Sometimes I feel like there's other women involved, that's what the voices in my head tell me. (I'm not psycho lol) Should I wait for him? Like I wanna see where this goes but I don't want to constantly bombard him. What do you guys think of this situation? Would you wait for him to sort his shit out? How long would you wait?