The other night my partner got very drunk and became really verbally aggressive and violent. This isn't the first time this has happened. He always has a go at me everytime he drinks for my past which iv told him a thousand times I can't change. Months ago we agreed to a few drinks rule and yesterday it just got out of hand and he ended up drinking more than usual and it kicked off. I told him the last time if it happens again then that's it. I know if I keep letting him get away with it he will do it again and again but I can't let him go

When he doesn't drink we are so perfect and happy together. I love him so much and want to spend the rest of my life with him. I dunno what I can do. Iv give him the silent treatment told him to sleep on the sofa and scared him by telling him it's over and for him to leave but the thing is I don't want him to leave. I'm lying in bed right now my heart is breaking so much all I want is to just cuddle him. I don't know what to do😢😢😢 How can I make him suffer? Iv laid down the law and there is a no drinking ban and iv give him the ultimatum and he's picked me but I still don't think he's suffered enough for him to realise. What can I do Please help? Tia xx