How can I stop myself from being so insecure about my body?

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Im so insecure about my body its pretty much ruining my life. I can't even talk to this guy i like because of it and i really like him. Can someone help me with this??

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Until you love yourself, you won't be able to love anyone else.  I hate my body, think it's ugly, and would love to get a tummy tuck or something BUT I love myself and the person that I am.  This body is just the outer shell, and my husband happens to LOVE my horribly imperfect body.  :)

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Just remember that there is NEVER EVER EVER gonna be another YOU there is no replacing you.?just wake up every morning and call yourself beautiful and soon you will believe it because it is true,,,keep your head up sweetie,,,women look better when they smile❤

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Find something positive about your self and use that to boost you're confidence

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Why are you insecure? I look at people and see all types of shapes and sizes. Every single one of us is unique and beautiful in our own way, just like how we all think differently.  SCREW the media, and their stupid ideals for beauty. Do me a HUGE favor and look up "To This Day". It's a poem/video. It may make you cry, but you may learn from that video what true beauty means (: ...P.S. When you look at yourself in the mirror always tell yourself how fabulous you look!!!

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I am going through the same problem. I say just do it, start off with a smile at least, don't think about it.

Although I will add if the guy can't accept you as you are, he's not worth your precious time. You deserve someone who will like you for you unconditionally.

Best of Luck! ??

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I think nearly every woman thinks like that. Instead of looking at the things u dislike about your body pick out the things u like. Remember perfection is imperfection x

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It sounds corny, but try telling yourself (out loud) in the mirror every morning and every evening, "You are beautiful and you deserve someone great." You'd be amazed at what hearing something everyday will do for your mentality.