Do you want sex before or after marriage

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I want to have kids but cant find the mr right or atleast close to mr right before having kids but I want to be married?
Does anyone else feel that way

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I want sex before and after marriage!  ???

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Sex after marriage is the safest thing you can do for yourself. I strongly believe it protects you emotionally and physically. And yes, I'm a Christian who waited until marriage.

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After marriage!!!

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My mom and dad got married at 21 &20 years old while pregnant with me lol. So if you want to have sex, have sex.  If you don't then don't.

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I had sex right after my 16th birthday. Which honestly wasn't to long ago. I don't see a huge deal in not waiting tell marriage. Im with someone who cares about me and I trust. It all depends on you and when you think you're ready. We had been dating for 13 months before I finally felt ready.

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Im engaged to the only man I've had sex with, we did it a few months after I turned 16. Actually he wanted to wait but couldnt handle it... Lol. I was super patient with him and was totally surprised by his decsion bc i was prepared to wait for him!

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My first time having sex was at 15, and he's my husband now. He's been my one and only! Honestly I think its to eaches own.

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My parents got married a year and half after I was born.

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I used to want this strictly because, "that's how its supposed to happen," but in my situation we are trying to have one and have lightly touched on the marriage subject. Some people find it necessary to get married first whereas I don't. Everyone's situation differs. Once you meet someone who you feel is the one, your views on everything will change. Trust me. I thought I was set in my ways til I met my man. We are going with the flow now and we couldn't be happier. Love is love regardless of the title you have on it. Just make sure he's one that will stay before you think about a little one.

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I used to. I got pregnant by my ex and miscarried. Then I met my now husband and got pregnant with twins. Miscarried again but we ended up getting married. Now I have a 2 and 3 year old and I'm happy I'm married. When I was younger I used to think all my friends were having kids and not married, what's the big deal? But now that I'm older I see being a SAHM would be much harder and I'm happy my kids have the stability of mom and dad being married and I can't imagine how hard it must be to be a single mom.