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Question

Okay so I've been talking with my boyfriend and I've decided that I'm ready to lose it to him. This is a big deal for me. But I'm nervous that it'll hurt or I'll mess up?? I mean I'm 17 and don't mean to sound ignorant I'm just really nervous and worried. Do you girls have any tips or advise that would help?? Thanks ❤️

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Get some lube! I don't remember it hurting, really, maybe just a little. But lube helps the process for sure! I was 17 when I lost my virginity too. I do have one tip for you though, don't let your relationship turn into one just about sex. Ours turned into that and it was 4 years of unhealthy "love" and I hate that it turned into that!

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I've heard it can be painful. A lot or a little. For me there was no pain or blood at all. I actually checked to make sure it was in because he had a very large penis and I was expecting pain. It's different for everyone, so just relax, and have fun. Everything will be great!

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You want to make sure you're clean all around so definitely take a nice shower & just make sure you feel very clean (which will make you feel more secure when it's time). Also make sure you know what you're doing ask someone you confide in what it's going to be like & what to expect. Do be prepared for pain & perhaps disappointment tho bc Ik quite a few girls aren't able to actually have sex the first few times due to the hymen being intact thick. This could also cause a lot of uncomfort or pain so do prepare for that just incase. Most of all don't stress about it too much just let things unfold naturally & ease into it! Also try to get as wet as possible lots of foreplay!! Most of all just have fun & enjoy the human bodies & enjoy yours feel confident goodluck! You can always chat with me about how it goes!

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It only hurts for a minute, just let him do all the work the first time so that you don't mess up if you're worried about it

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