Is it me or him?

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year, and up until the last few months it has been great! The sex couldn't be better, and every aspect of our relationship was wonderful! I found the love of my life. But now he rarely touches me?, we used to have sex every day, now it is 1 to 2 times a month. He says its him, that he's gaining weight and doesn't want to be intimate because he feels unattractive, I believe that to be BS!!! Help please

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It's probably not bs. He probably feels insecure

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It's definitely true. My husband has gained 40lbs in our two year marriage  and now he won't even take his shirt off during sex or he turns the light out when usually he loves to look at me. So be sensitive to his self consciousness cause believe it or not, men are more senitive about it than women.

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I really don't think that's bs. Men like to look good too. My husband went through the same thing. 
Ask him what you can do to help him lose weight and feel attractive again.
My husband and I counted calories  and worked out (weights, Zumba, biking, walking, running, swimming) together, which made losing weight so much easier and a lot more fun.

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I'm going through the same thing he says he is just so tired and drained from working 12 hrs then with taking care of our 8 month old