Have you been cheated on? How did you find out?

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My first boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend. I found out four years after I had dumped him for sexually assaulting me (yeah! Dodged a HUGE bullet there)

A mutual friend mentioned something about him cheating, and I asked what she meant. Her response was "I thought you knew he cheated?" - I was the last to know apparently, and she had assumed I didn't speak about it because I didn't want to, and no one knew the real reason I dumped him. It took me years to admit that to anyone out of shame/embarrassment.

And the 'friend' that he cheated with, I confronted her about it and asked why she didn't tell me. Apparently so much time had passed she 'forgot' to mention it.... !!

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What in the world!?! As far as I know I've never been cheated on.

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I found out I was being cheated on when my boyfriend at the time and I worked together. He was cheated with another coworker of ours. One night he was finishing up work really slow and acting super weird as if he were waiting on someone. So when I got finished with my work. I went to my car and acted like I was playing on my phone until he got out. When he left, I took a detour that led to the intersection on the way to his house. When he was supposed to take a left at the intersection, he instead took a right to go back to our work. He then pulled back into the parking lot and parked next to her car. I sat across the street to see what he'd do and he waited for her to get out. When she did, they hugged and got into their cars. They left toward her house (which was in the same direction as mine, we live in a small town) and I got behind him and called to ask where he was. He lied and said he was already almost home. Needless to say, the relationship didn't last much longer than that. lol

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My ex left his computer open. It was in front of me on the couch and I saw a conversation with a girl. Just by reading what was on display was enough for me. I asked him about it and he admitted he was on dating sites "looking for something better". But he figured he would keep me around until he found better. I moved out the next day. Now happily married.

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Oh boy my first bf cheated on me with a plus size girl.. Not saying they are not pretty but she wasn't and he always called me fat. So to choose a big girl to cheat baffled me. She knew about me too. She colored her hair like mine, got the same haircut and piercings.. It went on for years I was dumb.. Hes gone in my past. Lol but he always has to remember me the girl his sister named her daughter after..

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My abusive ex boyfriend bawled his eyes out said he cheated on me ect and I felt like my heart broke I was stupid enough to stay with him after he did cuz after he started emotionally abuse me and verbally abuse me and made it out that cheated on him cuz of my apperence and that's his "reason" why he cheated cuz he Insecure about his appearance😐

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Yes, I have been cheated on and I found out because he started being too nice.. completely different from how he normally was. I did some digging, and lo and behold, he was cheating on me with a girl I worked with. 
My husband had a girlfriend who, when he was working the graveyard shift, would bring guys to their house and F them in their bed.. he would come home and have no idea. Finally, his best friend set up an intervention because everyone knew and tried to tell him but he didnt believe them.. plus, she was pregnant and said it was his even though she hadnt slept with him for months saying she was too tired..
Its so sad. Talk about psychologically F-ing with your head.

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We didn't use condoms at the time and I found used ones in our trash after I got home from a weekend trip.

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Oh boy. Yup I was definitely cheated on. My ex fiance and I were living together. Looking back he was doing stuff I should have always questioned but was too naive at the time. We were fighting and it was decided that I would move back with my parents for a little while. Well about 2 weeks later a girl on Fb messaged me that she was pregnant with his baby and they had been together for a couple of months. I then met my now husband and my ex found out and started stalking me. He was batsh*t crazy.

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Cheaters get cocky after a while of getting away with it. They always slip up.

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Ridiculous !!!! Sorry that happened to you :( I was cheated on and found out because he called me and told me to get tested because the girl he cheated with had an STD... 😑

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