Scared to try again

Ellie
Well my husband and i got pregnant right after we got married... We spread the news right away and then totally regret it after i lost the baby on my 3rd month. 
It was the worst physically and mentally period of my life I've been through.
It's been two years now and we finally think about trying again, but I'm so scared that I might go through it all again...
Is there anyone on the same situation? Need someone who understands my fears :(