I understand your SO more😒

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1st off no shade(aka no hard feelings) but just take a moment & think about it...
So I'm not on here often but when I do I come across so many insecure, over jealous, immature, uptight, halfway psychotic posts. If you're posting things like this I can imagine what your SO is feeling about you. Relax! Nothing is that serious in life. If your SO cheats, choose to move on or take them back without acting crazy. If your SO forget to put the toilet seat down (or up) just deal with it (yes I saw a post like this). If you're super jealous but want SO to tell you everything, give you the password to their phone & have a curfew...umm just be single, no one want to be treated like a teenager. Sometimes I wonder if some of you realize how your actions/words really make your SO feel. I'm 30, been cheated on but never went crazy. I just expressed my feelings and moved on. I've been in many situations in relationships but have managed to demand all that I'm worthy of without downgrading myself by remaining mature & classy with my self-esteem, respect & dignity intact. I don't go around emasculating who I am with either. I am heterosexual and for a man this is a big deal. Build him up ladies & if you can't find someone else. My husband commends me for this very often. Even when he get on my nerves there is a way to resolve things without being a pain in the bum. 
I dislike to say it but reality tv has brainwashed too many women & it shows greatly. Just be you, be with someone who makes you happy and love one another. Trust me it's not hard at all. Make better choices. Just think about it Mmkay.Â