How much compromise is normal?

SO and I got in a huge fight last night over his lack of compromise and I just want to make sure I'm not asking too much of him. When I'm in a relationship, I like physical and verbal affection. I need to be held and kissed and told "I love you/you're important to me/I'm glad you're in my life" and, I will admit, I am vain, I need to hear, "you look great/pretty/beautiful." I also really need sex. Well, we have sex once a month, in the last year and a half he has said ILY once, even after asking him to please acknowledge when I spend an hour and a half gettig made up, he refuses to say I look good, I begged him to dance with me for the only time in our entire relationship and he refused at a wedding he dragged me to across the country...........nvm. I'm done venting, thanks for listening. Unfortunately, I have to go beak up with a very sweet man who is a very bad boyfriend.