Frustrating husband

So I have a 9 month old who I have raised practically by my self since my husband works well he wants another one... Well you have to have sex to make one and I'm not getting that how does he expect it to happen?? And I'm not about to beg for it he says he world to much to have sex.. Well guess no baby number 2 so I told him I was thinking about getting back on birth control (since having my son my cramps are just like contractions) why put me threw that if we arnt tring?)... My husband gets all pissy with me... Like really 😡