How does a person truly forgive and move on from being cheated on?

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I can't figure it out....

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If you figure it out let me know. Because usually you think your fine, then something will remind you or it and your not fine again.

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From someone who has been cheated on in every single long term commitment I've ever had...it's tough. A lot of tears and self searching. First step is to realize its not you're fault. There's nothing you could have done differently. Second, realize that not every person you date is gonna be like that. Start every relationship as a clean slate. You'll only be miserable if u let you're future partner suffer from what one person did. Best of luck!

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It all takes time. You may forgive over time but you never forget.  I've been down that road and it wasn't easy.  There are times the memory comes back no matter how long it's been.  
First thing I did was take time for myself. What did I want?  Second was to really look at my relationship and pick it apart to see if there was a reason tbis happened. Third. Was it worth saving.      
Only you can answer these questions. 
Many people say "if my SO ever cheated I would leave and it would be over" and I was one of those....but when the shoe is on the other foot you begin to sing a different tune.   
And you do get through it

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You have to put it behind you and forget it happend but also learn to trust and earn trust. Clean break new friends and spending alot of time together communicating is the key too because you need to work upon what caused you to cheat in the first place and start from the beginning to fix this. Its tough but can be done. My SO cheated on me and took a girl to america spending over $5000 on her ( i live i UK ) and i caught him out when i suspicians arose because he didnt want me near the airport to pick him up and after his behaviour changed so i bluffed it id got a STD and told him it was a bad one then i told him i had been told by his mate what he had done and he broke down come clean. The reasons we worked upon and slowly but surely we got sorted. This was 14yrs ago been together nearly 17 years now. He is always saying sorry and gives me no cause to not trust him. You have to be strong and find it in your heart to forgive. Good luck

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Time. That's the only thing that helps.

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Are you staying with this person and thing to figure out how to move forward with the relationship? Or moving on and being single?

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A clean break and lots of friends. And, time. Good luck sis xxx

How does a person truly forgive and move on from being cheated on?

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