What should I do?

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So I talked with my bf about our sex life and he says the reason he doesn't like having sex is because he doesn't have the endurance, he feels he's small, and he says he doesn't last long. But the thing is we use to have sex a lot.. I don't get it and I'm getting sexually frustrated bc of this. I also asked him if he ever gets horny and he says no only sometimes in the middle of the night. Please help me guys I'm getting really depressed it's like he doesn't find me sexually attractive anymore and it really hurts.

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What are his eating habits? If he's eating a lot of junk and fast food it causes problems with testosterone and whatnot

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Honestly if you both were sexually active as you stated,  this is just me . Houston we have a problem,  once again this is what I do , question must be direct weather it makes him uncomfortable or not.  My children father did this same situation.  Long and behold another baby and engaged to be married while still living with me . smh didn't find that out until he passed away. This  was  one of his favorite questions , what if I had another baby what would you do , truly I blew if off , but I flipped out after while & he stated I'm joking  it was true all along. Nothing was funny to me period .  The pain behind that words can't express . I apologize if I spoke to much on your post . Things like this makes me suspicious seriously.

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Maybe do fun things that take pressure off of sex? Go to the movies, go out for dinner? Just to find each other again and rekindle. Give him compliments and make him know he is perfect just the way he is.

If he has indurance issues maybe start excercising together to build that up? Start running or do a sport both of you enjoy?