C -section Or push my baby out ?

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Some ppl saying pushing is better some say c section i really wanna push her out naturally but some say my vagina want be the same afterwards if i push ? Any help

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What idiot said that ? LOL. You don't get to choose whether you want a c section or not that's only for the doctors to decide.

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You can't get a c section unless medically necessary or you had one in the past! I had to have an emergency c section and I will never understand why anyone would want to have one instead of vaginal! With this baby I will be trying for a vbac and praying that it's successful and won't have to have another c section

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I've had 2 boys and pregnant with boy #3. My husband still loves my vagina the same and I have no complaints. So....💁🏻

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I had a vaginal. My vagina is just fine and dandy.

This is your choice and either way you are birthing you child. However, opting for a major surgery because you are afraid your vagina "won't be the same afterwards" is a bit overboard. Our bodies are made to do all sorts of crazy things, giving birth is one of them. If you can't medically have a vaginal birth or baby needs to be taken out right away in an emergency csection, is one thing, but to have major surgery where healing time is double that of a vaginal just because is another.

You need to be happy with your choice and no one else. It's your experience and you are giving birth either way and that is a miracle, but do your research.

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Elective c sections are very rare because it's a major abdominal surgery. Most care providers wont do one unless its medically necessary. Your vagina is meant to have babies and it does go back to normal.

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They do not do C-sections unless there's a medical reason.

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To be fair... Your whole body is different after baby LOL 
Vagina, breasts, hips, ribs, sometimes hair, skin muscle structure. 
My opinion, don't try to find a doctor to do an elective csection. Why would you want to be cut open and then stitched back together willingly? That's like busting through a wall with an open door.. LOL

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Ive had 2 EMCS and will have to have an elective one this time. Dear god woman push that baby out your fanny! I wish i had been able too but due to complications in both pregnancies i couldnt. Scariest moments of my life. Its major surgery followed by quite a long recovery time. Its not worth choosing to be cut when u can do whats natural

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I had an emergency c section. It is not what I wanted, but baby was stuck. I have to say the recovery is tough. You have a lot of pain. Then you have to wait at least a year for recovery before you can get pregnant again.  your uterus can separate and you can lose your baby if you are not healed properly. It is rare, but can happen! I'm also sad I didn't get to experience a vaginal birth even though I dilated to 10 cm. plus as all the other ladies have said, doctors don't let you choose unless you have had a c section before and don't want to do a VBAC. At least that's my case for the next time I fall pregnant.

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Most doctors won't give you a cesarean unless it's medically necessary