constant arguing normal?

Question

me & my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now and we've been arguing more than often lately. usually it's roughly twice a week but now it's everyday. and more so about stupid, little things. we had a week where we've spent every day together and it was amazing. after that, we haven't seen each other in about two weeks and everything is just going downhill. he claims he gets really upset when he can't see me. could this just be withdrawal? should i be worried about my relationship?

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Constant arguing is not healthy.  Is it normal?, in some relationships I'd say yes because neither individual is talking about the true issue.  If discussing simple things like not taking the trash out or leaving the toilet seat up leads to a heated argument, then there are undeying issues that need to be brought to the surface.  If you are arguing about the same thing over and over then either one person is not respecting the others wishes/desires or one person or both, has not forgiven the other for a past offense.  Personally, I could not stand going home if I knew there would be an impending argument.  That is no way to live.  My home is my solace, my soft place to fall after a long day's work.  My hubby and I have been together for 7 years three of which are married years.  My husband has never raised his voice at me even in a disagreement.

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Well how do you feel? Do you still want to be together?

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Write a list of all the reasons why you love them. What would you do if the other had need that they only had 6 weeks to live. What would be important up you. Where do you see yourself in 5 years and also watch 'why did I get married' by Tyler perry I think there is a set of questions in there too . Xxx All the best Hun

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Me and my husband used to be like that back in 2011 it got so bad as it was right after we got married but rhe truth is you need therapy and am not talking 40 bucks an hour type therapy. Am talking setting aside time dedicated time to work on productive progress of your relationship
 
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​You deep down both have a core reason for the arguments that take place. Most won't admit on first session even to yourself. 
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​It could be like us, both had insecurities of the other person leaving each other. We didn't realise what we didn't want to happen was taking place in front of our eyes. We were pushing each other away in fear of being pushed first. All comes down to your ego in relationships. 
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