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cole • Sun, Apr 13

In July I'll be officially moving in with my boyfriend but for now I have school to finish. Every time someone asks me how I am, I respond and also let them know I'm moving, that way it's not a surprise and they don't think I just up and left them. And with telling them so, every response I get it "don't get pregnant"..even from my dad.. Of course I get nervous when they say that just cause it gets real awkward. It's like I want to scream at them and say "HELLO! I'm an adult" but I have a feeling they'd scream back "yeah a YOUNG adult!!"

Then they ask, "is he nice?"...well he's the nicest, he's quiet unless you get him talking but once you do he can seriously make you laugh for hours. He's extremely nice to me! Don't let his tattoos and dark hair deceive you!

Then "do you love him?" And my response without hesitation YES! I do, we've been through a weird thing (that's another story) and life has put him in my life for the third time throughout our lives and different locations. We have connections, mentally and even with people...it's weird (another story). But yes, I'm in love with him and have been since the moment I ever laid eyes on him in person.

"How do you know?" They always ask me that, it's always the last. My answer, "I just do". Most of the time the convo gets left at that, then there are some who keep at it "yeah but how". But I can't really explain how.

See, I know I can go on without him. If we were to tragically crash, but I know that won't ever happen. The only way I would ever physically let go of him is by my death (which would not be my choice), and he will say the same. But we choose to spend our 20s and on with each other. He's my bestfriend, then my lover.

I sent him a photo of my parents on their wedding day I found at my aunts house.