After hearing the news from my husbands mother that his sister with fertility problems is pregnant and that she's using the same ob/gyn that birthed them and their uncle we decided to let her know we are too (about a month ahead of her). I've always talked about doing a midwife. First thing out of her mouth after the initial suprise was " Now Dr ** can birth both my grandbabies!" Told her flat out I don't have insurance, can't get insurance until January (baby due end of Jan beginning of Feb) and am set on a midwife anyway. After telling her I went to work and she took my husband to look at insurances, none will take me, and convinced her doctor to give us a cheaper price than the midwife group I've been using since I was a teenager and now my husband is set on using her doctor... I love the discount but I wanted my midwife group! Am I just being ungrateful and too picky???