Wouldn't you be upset and pissed off if you discovered that your boyfriend was deleting messages between him and the girl he used to have feelings for? They're "best friends" now. But, why are you deleting messages? That's very, very odd to me. The other day me and him were arguing, I was crying. He left me to go comfort that girl because she was upset about her boyfriend. Congrats on comforting a friend, but shouldn't your girls tears come first? My boyfriend literally starts yelling at me and starts making me feel like I'm being crazy. Am I? I asked why he deleted them since the subject was brought up and he tells me "I don't know."