Do you address your spouse, partner by their first or last name?

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My BF & I don't think it feels right to only address each other by first names but occasionally I do when mad irritated or serious but he hates it always.

How about you guys?

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We always call each other by our first names.. He'll say Kel and babe but I just call him by his name.. We've been together 11.5 years and married almost 4

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What? You mean like you call them by their full name all the time?

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Been with mine for almost 3 years. I call him by his first name occasionally, but mostly babe, baby, papi chulo, pumpkin, boo cakes, baby cakes, baby love, whatever pet name comes out when I open my mouth is what I call him.

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I'm confused... We have pet names for eachother, if I used his real name ex:"hey john, want wanter?" It would be weird... Instead we say something like "hey baby, want water?"

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I say every pet name I can think of always coming up with tons of different ones, in different languages,, the ONLY time I ever call him by his first name is when I mad as hell! :o

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My ex husband was active duty military. It was normal to call everyone by their last names. We lived on base and anytime I talked about him, I had to use his last name. Not many people actually knew his first name :D with my current fiancé it's normal to call by first name. I usually just get his attention by saying babe or hun. Even when I'm upset I've never called him by his full name. He's not a child :D he's never called me by my full name either.

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Been with my SO since high school and it's always been pet names. So used to it that calling him his real name sounds weird on my tongue.

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I use his name and baby or babe

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This is so funny, I have NEVER called my husband by his real name it feels weird.. Only if I am talking about him to someone else lol

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I only use his actual name when I really need to get his attention