Pull out method??

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How well does it work? My new guy refuse to wear a condom. He says it doesn't feel as good. I mean, of course, I agree but I'm just trying to be safe. What should I do? Oral contraceptives makes me moody and depressed. What are my options?

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No it doesn't work, there's always a little bit of Precum that enters and lots of people have fallen pregnant on that method, you should go to your dr and see about other contraceptive methods as there is more than just the pill if you don't want to go on anything then condoms are the only way to go.

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Tell him to his the road!

Seriously, a guy who can't be safe doesn't deserve to get laid.

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Tell him to man up and wear a condom! You're not the only one responsible for preventing pregnancy.

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If my 18 year old son can follow the motto "No glove, no love" then I think every adult male should be able to do the same. I know what it's like to have an unplanned pregnancy because I wasn't careful enough. I never wanted it to happen again so I was very careful after I had him. I also don't think that condoms lessen the  sensations and I like the fact that I don't have to worry about leakage after sex

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Pulling out is too risky unless you don't mind getting pregnant. You're leaving it up to the guy to know exactly the right time to pull out every time. It CAN work, but he could have an orgasm sneak up on him too. He either needs to wear a condom out of respect for your wishes or possibly try some other form of contraceptive? I've never used others. Condoms don't feel as good for sure, but they're safe if you don't want to conceive. I don't blame you for not liking oral contraceptives either!

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Forget about pregnancy, you said a new guy so I'd worry about stds!!!

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It is very unreliable. You'll get pregnant, quite possibly.

If he refuses to wear a condom, refuse to have sex. He sounds selfish. It's your body too.

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I agree with everyone else: don't use the pill out method. Even if he doesn't come there's usually pre come which can contain sperm and you can get pregnant.

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You can get an IUD or the Depo shot or you could use a female condom. There are many many options out there.

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I suggest nuva ring!