How do you leave someone you love?

Question

He's so angry and unreasonable, not a healthy person. We have been together for 6 years and every time I have tried to leave in the past I end up backing out and staying, but I have to leave for my daughter. I'm 24 weeks pregnant and I don't want her born into this life. Sure he may change but he probably won't he will probably still have days off where he gets drunk and comes home with a bloody face and no jacket like he did tonight. I've tried to get him help, couples counceling anger management how do I leave???

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Just do it and don't look back. The first year will be hard, but it will be so easy to look back once your daughter is born, and sometes leaving is what makes people realize they messed up. Get support from friends and whatever you do don't give in to your own pitty. Don't go back because you feel bad, or it hurts, because those days will come but they will also go.

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Make a plan, you know where you'll go if any friends and family will let you stay with them discuss with them, if you don't have a job get one, and once you leave don't look back. It'll be hard and you'll be worried you did the right thing, he'll probably beg you to come home and say he'll b different but he most likely won't. It's the cycle of unhealthy relationships. You will be ok on your own you just have to be strong and believe in yourself. Good luck!

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Are you financially independent? Do you have any friends or family that could take you in? I think you're doing the right thing? X

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You never know what's going on with him... It's time to fear for your own safety & leave without telling him while he is gone. If you must have contact with him please bring a few people with you