Soooo I'm very kinky & ive been with my boyfriend/ now husband for 2 years .. & im still kinda embarrassed to come out and say it but I love the whole hair pulling / butt slapping, Even the sex toys but idk he pretty much doesn't seem like the time to do whole other stuff I even tried getting of talking about that stuff but he seems like he isn't really into it, I mean idk what to do and at the same time I don't want him to get freaked out or feel weird about any of it ..