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Hey guys, I have a problem!

Before I start I just want you too know I am 14 and please don't judge me. I have a reason for my questions and I really don't want to be put down anymore then I have xx

I have a lot of extra skin on my clitoris. And when I say a lot I mean like a lot!! I am getting it removed in an operation in September. I will then not be able to have any sort of sexual relationship for the next two months after that.

My boyfriend really wants to have sex with me, and I want to have sex with him too but I'm too scared that he will hate me if he sees all the extra skin. I'm scared he will tell everyone and I will get bullied or some shit like that, you know how it is.

I don't know if I should just go for it, or wait till after the operation. I really want to have sex now (I am a virgin) but I'm scared.

Also guys please don't tell me stuff like if he really cares about me, he won't tell anyone cause I know that aha xx

Just want some advice from all you lovely ladies xoxo

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