am i too young?

Question

i've been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months recently we've been talking about sex we know to use condoms and we did it i'm only 14 was it a bad idea?

Answer

Love, do as you please. But don't let anyone talk you into it. If he's pressuring you, don't do it. If you feel
pressured because of social media, don't do it. The fact that you're coming on here asking for strangers opinions makes me feel like you're not ready. I lost my virginity at 18, to someone I thought I was going to marry. He broke up with me, and now I regret not saving myself for the one I was going to marry. As I said, it's your choice. Just make sure you're ready. Make sure you're doing it for you, and nobody else. And yes, please be safe. Learn how to use condoms correctly, and don't have sex without one. Hope everything turns out well, girl.

Answer

Technically a lot of people will say, " you need to find the right guy or save it for marriage so it can be more meaningful." To be honest, I'm 15 and me and my boyfriend have been talking about have sex too but our relationship has my even gone that farm I find that if its your body then it's your choice to do what you want but you do need to realize the "dangers" of having sex. You know STIs and pregnancy. So I would just say be careful. Even though your using condoms it's not the best contraceptive. Try and ask for birth control. I know that's risky and stuff but you'll have double the protection. But if you have trust in your boyfriend and yourself then I guess you aren't too young if your deciding this for yourself.

Answer

As long as you're ready and as long as nobodys forcing or pressuring you into it you're fine. A lot of people are going to tell you you're too young but as long as you're being responsible and safe there's nothing wrong with it. Everyone's ready at different times. Some people save it for marriage and some people lose it young. Just because someone else has a different opinion on it doesn't mean you have to have the same opinion. Keep doing what you're doing if it makes you happy :)

Answer

It is young. However it's good you are talking about contraceptives, ensure you have them prepared if you think the time is coming. Do what is right for you.

am i too young?

Let's Glow!

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey