Husband says I have no ambition drive, I'm a loser that doesn't went to face challenges and that I am weak..what do I say to that? I am a very easy going non chaillant person

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Do I leave him? Wed just filr bancrupcy, I can't get an apartment

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Pray and ask God what you should do. Also be prepared to listen to the answer

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Pray!

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Any man who speaks to you that way, does not deserve you. It doesn't take god to show you or
Give you answer to realize what you need to do. this is not a man. A real man would help guide you to make you a better person and help you lift you instead of pulling you down. He's obviously insecure with himself bc he can't take care of you. Hence bankruptcy. Work on being a better you and once your there, no man will define you.

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I would say leave now and find an apartment because if you just filed it takes months to show up on credit because of processing. No one should have that kind of negativity in their lives! Leave him to sulk on his own and do you!

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Tell him to shut it! =)

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That's not okay for him to talk to you like that. I obviously don't know the whole story but you need to have a serious, calm conversation and tell him that's crossing the line. If it continues to happen you shouldn't stay with him.

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People say things when they're under great stress..

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Even if you don't believe him and think you're doing everything right, take it as a piece of helpful criticism and find something that strikes a big ambition in your life. Do something you've never done before :) prove him wrong and be a good woman. He may have said this out of anger but I would take it as "at least he speaks up"