Issue settled but not really?

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Do you ever have a problem with your partner that you bring up and discuss and it seems resolved at the time, but when you think back on it you start to pick holes? Like the main issue is settled, but there are little things about it that you bring up to the horizon in your thoughts lool. In that case, would you bring it up again? Or just leave it? :/

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I know just what you mean. If it's weighing heavily on my heart then I bring it up but if it's something I can live with then I let it go and try and pick my battles wisely. It's hard though.

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I am a resolution girl! I CANNOT move on without resolution. I can't glaze over it, I can't move forward, I cant live without resolution. I need you to understand my feelings, and I need to understand your thoughts and we need to find resolution. Period.

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I like peace or compromise. I hate to fight but it eats me up. I take out the anger on whatever is around me. I let them out little by little and gently. In terms of letting go, that all depends if it's not a big deal and not affecting other areas

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This me i be like ok we talked about it problem solved but then i start see holes in the solution or story stuff don't add up or i over thinked something then im mad.

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This happens to me. I always try to just let it go since we've already discussed it and it's a difficult subject. But at times it just keeps eating away at me and I end up bringing it back up. He doesn't like it and I feel a little bad mentioning it again. But then I'm like Hey, he messed up and if talking about it helps me to get past it and move on, then I'll keep bringing it up if I think of a question or just need to get something off my chest. He has to deal with it because he should want to help me move past it.

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Me ans my partner all the time - he has ADHD so things are more complicated sometimes then they need to be but we get over it eventually

Issue settled but not really?

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