So my lovely mother in law was like you know my sons child isn't allowed to have cokes right well first off i asked his dad he said it was fine second off why isn't a perfectly healthy 10 year old allowed to have cokes is it bad that I'm scared with me and my so trying to conceive she will be this way to our child this woman is a control freak if she's not in control she has a melt down WHAT DO I DO