So my baby shower is Saturday and my husbands family will not be attending. At first I made it my priority to invite and make his family feel welcomed. They don't like me because I never once let my husband try to walk all over me. We both agreed in our relationship to be 50/50 with respect both ways. His family is used to the women cooking everyday cleaning everyday and ect. My husband and I do most 50/50 obviously if he's feeling down or too tired I notice and I pick up where he left off. Mutual respect I love it. Anyhow. I feel bad because my husband has literally no family to have his back. Or atleast be there for him. It's his first child. My mil isn't going either. I made sure I gave all of them invites a little over a month in advance. His mom missed the wedding because a cussin she does not like went and now is missing the babyshower because she doesn't like me and rather work🙃. I'm happy she's not going I could care less how she feels towards me but I hate seeing my husband feel like his mom doesn't care. I just want to protect him. I honestly feel as though since she missed the wedding and is going to miss the babyshower there's no point in her being in the l&D room for when I give birth.