Why do men change after the courting phase.

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So this has always confused me. 
Men are precise and persistent . Prince charming gallops up on his big white horse parading around, throwing you flowers, luxurious dinners, sweet charming message. You almost believe he is the and your ready too runaway iff into a beautiful sunset too elope and live happily ever after ......Than BANG!!! He changes from Dr.Jekyll to Mr.Hyde.  Why?
And what do you do after this?

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The right guy won't do that. You need tofind someone that is willing to put the effort in to keep the spark alive. (:

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Everyone puts their best self forward during courting, obviously it's not good if they change into an asshole but you can't expect a perfect prince charming every day. We all just get comfortable with eachother and romance is found in smaller things like cuddling while watching a movie etc.

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My husband hasn't changed at all. The right guy isn't going to put up a front like that.

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After 5 years this month my fiancé has never changed. In fact, I think he's only got better with time ☺️ the sweetest, most loving man I've met