Our decision.

Once nesting started for me at 25 weeks (I'm 27 weeks now), I started having anxiety about having visitors come to the hospital and not letting us have bonding time with this second baby.

To clarify, my family was in and out the whole day I was in labor with my son. Once we were told we needed a c section my twin sister blew up on the nurses and my ob. Then we had visitors in and out the whole hospital stay.

This little girl is our second baby, and I'm wanting it to just be us, and have our son bond with her before we leave the hospital.

We aren't telling anyone except my in laws and best friend when we go into labor. In laws are keeping our son and my nest friend is a doula. We are announcing ger arrival once we get home, and a couple days later we will have a meet and greet.

I want a meet and greet. It makes me more comfortable that way, and I'm home.