Just married and curious- how often do you have sex?

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Hey everyone, this is my first post on here. I just recently got married and am curious to know how often most people have sex with their spouses. My husband and I believe in saving sex for marriage and so that's what we did. It seemed like when we were just dating we couldn't keep our hands off of each other- it was very hard to stick to our convictions but we did it! Now that we are married we have sex typically 2-3 times a week. It's funny, I always heard how most men are horny all the time, ready to go any time any day, it seems that our rolls are a bit flip flopped. I've discovered that I have a pretty high sex drive- it could also just be that I'm a newlywed, but I wanted to get some of your feedback and input from those of you who are married. Who has the higher sex drive, you or your spouse? I am married to the most amazing, kind and thoughtful man ever, but I can't help feeling a little weird about the change from when we were just dating (and the sex I thought we would be having) to what the reality is now. Has anyone else gone through this?

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As the time goes the sex will get better! Once you learn him and he learns you, you will love it!

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We have sex 1 to 3 times a day. Often it's my man that have the highest sex drive. But he just needs to tuch me to get me in the mood. It's different for everyone.

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I felt exactly the same when the hubs and I got married 7 years ago. We waited and then his sex drive just dropped. It totally made me feel so rejected and like I wasn't good enough and then I started to push him away. I later learned that he was just really pooped out from work and that I was trying too soon after he got off work. The biggest thing that we have learned is to communicate. It is so awkward especially if you have waited but being open and honest about sex will only make it better and prevent resentment and issues to build between you. We have sex probably 2-4 times per month and are TTC our first baby.

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My husband and I did the same with each other (we both had one other partner and only had done it once.totally big regret not waiting but that's okay. Further reference he's 29 im 21...we got married in July) but I promise it gets better. Just give it time. Work on intimacy. It's what makes it so much better. And hey 2-3 times a week is awesome!! Hang in there girly you're doing great! Take it a day at a time.

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My drive is higher, but neither of us mind. I keep a vibrator on hand for when hubby isn't in the mood.

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At the begaining we had sex about 2 to 3 times a day everyday..i Love it..se were both virgins..now 2 years later we have sex 2 to 3 times a week..some times we go a couple weeks without..it's so frustrating because I have a higher sex drive than he does..I miss those days they were amazing.:)

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We got married in August and have sex every other day ?

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It's your husband.  Do it every night girl

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Here is an idea. 
Surprise him. When he gets home from work have a nice dinner cooked, wine and all. Lead him into the bedroom, where you should have candles lit and sexy rose petals everywhere, and some fruit (Starwberries are aphrodisiacs)  whip cream.  And after that just get creative.  ;) oh yea wear something red silky and skin revealing.

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Our sex life is odd we go on binges lol we will go without for a couple days like 2-4 days and all of a sudden we will have sex everyday for a week and a half then start the cycle over again lol