Sex getting hard for anyone else?

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My husband and I are both big people (round and tall) and sex is starting to get uncomfortable. Missionary is painful since week 28, my hips kill me if I'm on top and last night we failed at doggy. It is getting too hard to bend over for that. I haven't been that excited for sex anyway, so it doesn't break my heart.. but I would feel bad to go from here til 6 weeks after birth with no sex for him.

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What sex lol

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Ugh this makes me want to cry it's all I want but it's just not worth it to me... Takes forever and hurts. 😭

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31 weeks & it's still working for me lol. Thank god !!

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The next time we have sex will be to try to jumpstart labor in seven weeks. At this level of discomfort, I don't even feel a little bit bad about it.

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Sex makes all my aches and pains go away. So I say the more the better. Just experiment and have fun with it and laugh about the difficulties. It's makes it fun and more enjoyable.

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I told my SO he can suck it up. We have been down to once a week since week 28 I think. Now that my vagina is swollen, back and hips hurt I no longer care about sex. I can't believe howuch o enjoyed it and I better enjoy it again after but my body needs a rest. He can jerk off.

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Missionary just does not work I don't know why we even try lol. I don't like doggy style so me being on top works. Except I can't get off that way. I don't know why I bother, I guess I still like feeling close to him but he just doesn't want to cause its too weird for him. Does he realize then that'll be 14 weeks without sex??😐

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Hey, I'm going through all the ache and pains to give him another baby, he can deal with no sex for a little while. Lol we've been down to once every few weeks for the last few months. He's not adventurous, so normally we only do two different positions. Missionary is too hard cause I can't breath and it's hard on my entire lower body. Haven't gone on top since I was like 12 weeks. He'll be lucky to get it much more from here on out. Haha

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Try a birthing/yoga ball to help position you, take the weight off, and make it easier to move in the direction and the rhythm you want. It really does help of you are bigger and having trouble with comfort in different positions. I have also found that swimming helps move the baby up a bit higher to make things more comfortable. Good luck and don't give up trying.

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Have you tried sex on your side that's the only way I can really do it now and plus it feels amazing

Sex getting hard for anyone else?

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