I don't drink very often and it's usually just a glass of wine. I don't smoke so we are good there. I guess I just need as much advice that I can get from other people who are ttc themselves and what people did to help them successful conceive. I'm afriad that it will cause stress because I know there are times where it can take awhile and other factors. Please, give me any advice you guys have for beginning to prepare a baby into this world! I would very much appreciate it. It seems like when I post I don't get a response so anything will help!