Okay so my clitoris is extremely swollen and by extremely I mean so swollen I look awkward walking. Has this happened to anybody before/ please tell me what I need to do to make the swelling go down. I've tried ice and it's helped a little but it is still abnormally swollen and large. I'm only 16 years old and the last thing I want to do is tell my mom about it because we don't have that type of relationship