Livid First time mom!

Brianna
Hi Ladies. I have a question and I want to know what would be the right thing to do.. Well every since I've been pregnant my mom has been very rude and uncaring, recently due to stress with pertaining some of her actions my child and I lost a lot of blood and when she was told about the situation she stated that she didn't care... Ladies it's kinda a tradition to have your mom in the delivery room but I'm thinking about not even having her in the room with me due to her unkind gestures ladies would I as a mother be wrong if I don't have her in the delivery room? Need answers please HELL!!