Arousal Issues

Manda • 24 • 9yr relationship • polysexual • full-time student • part-time college tutor
Whenever me and my bf have steamy make-out sessions (shedded clothing, body kisses, gettin frisky, etc.) I love it SO much, yet sometimes I'm not turned on during parts of it or all of it. I love him so much and am super comfortable with him. What does this mean?? Low libido? Need for romantic intimacy?