Are You Secret TTCing?

Question

Have you decided to keep TTCing to yourselves as a private act? Told the whole of Facebook because you are so excited? Told only certain people because you know you need a support group? Why have you choosen to take the route you did.

For Example: Only my mom a our very closest friends know because we need a support group, but I don't want to get asked a million questions or be looked at with pity each month I get a BFN.

Answer

People know we are not preventing it but not many people know I'm on fertility drugs.

Answer

We are ttc and only me and my husband know ... I really want us to start a family of our own I'm just worried that my parents will be dispointed in us... In me if they knew of what we were doing... You see we lost our jobs a couple of months ago and we had to move back home with the parents due to us losing our home we had for over 3 yrs... Well my husband was able to land a job that same month we moved back and now last week they let him go for no reason....

Answer

We have waited a long time to start TTCing. We didn't want the added pressure of everyone knowing. I'm glad we didn't tell anyone cuz it's been 6 months or so. I'm currently late for AF so hoping this is our month!!!

Answer

Only my husband , his family and one of my close friends who has a child know we are TTC. I'm not one who has ever really been in the "spotlight" and don't think I'd feel comfortable being there anyway with this