I just got back from getting a wax and DANG it hurt!  I've not had a wax in a few years but I remember they were soft waxes and not that painful.   Is it just pregnancy and being so swollen that made it painful?! Lol  It was a nice treat to go out and get it.  It's going to be much easier to keep my self clean feeling clean down there after the baby comes in a few weeks :)