What do you do to find the silver lining in getting AF??

Lindsey • IVF miracle born 12/11/2018, surprise baby #2 due August 2021!
After 6 months of trying, I was getting really down every time AF would show up.  Now when it comes and I have a BFN, I'm trying to let it roll off my shoulders and enjoy all the wine and seafood I can stomach!  What do you do to keep yourself relaxed and positive when you get your AF???