So last September(2015) my husband and I got married while he was in AIT in the army, so we never really got to have a real wedding, and we have no pictures of us on the day because it was a double proxy marriage. Should we save and spend the money for the full wedding even though it would be 2018 before we could even have it? If you were a friend or family would you still go? I think I'd really like to but even small classy weddings are expensive and we barely make ends meet as is and he's getting out of the military soon. What do y'all think?