Mouth to south, head, BJ whatever!

BMO school • Mrs
Okay so my husband and I had an argument last night because I didn't want to give him oral. He asked me why and I told him he hurts my jaw. Now I don't think I'm an expert at giving head but I am pretty confident in my abilities. I quit giving head a month before we got married and then after the wedding I still didn't. I figured my puss would satisfy that since we never had sex while dating. So he was super bent out of shape about it and honestly I don't care to give head anymore. It hurts my jaw, I'm at a weird angle and everything. He kept asking and asking why so I asked him did he want me to give him head. I just wanted him to shut up about it. I gave him head and he took forever to orgasm. ( he has enough control over himself to slow the process down ) he wanted me to savor the moment and I'm like dude no. My jaw hurts and I'm not a cat so I'm not going to lick it forever and make it cold. The whole time I was down there I was bored and angry. He kept trying to 69 but I was completely turned off. Once he came he then wanted to have sex. I'm like sure why not. Anything to get you to cuddle me and sleep like a teenager.
Am I being selfish? We have been married 2 months and I'm already over all the games. Like seriously help me.