Is keeping your virginity something important?

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It is wrong to shame people for being virgins and for not being virgins. People are who they are.

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What's important is being a confident woman and knowing that you're a valuable individual:) Virgin or not

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I personally never really cared about virginity. It seems to me to be such a weird thing to put that much emphasis on for women. I think in our society it's a pretty sexist reasoning and not something I believe in. 
That being said if someone values it that's their choice, everyone is different.

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I was in love with the man I lost it too, and he was careful, kind and a Virgin as well. We were 16 and swore we were gonna get married.. Haha he cheated on me a year later. I still care for the man, but he's a seperate past now. I don't regret it, I did at some point, but not now. I've had several partners since. With my DF  I'm glad I know sex works with us, and that its magical, and well can make babies :). Haha, I was molested as a young child so sex has always been a broken topic for ne, losing my virginity was a way for me to take control. I personally wouldn't change a thing... Except a one night stand in college(bad idea :))

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Honestly I'm torn a bit. Because I found someone worth being with and wish I could have waited for him or at least a bit longer than I did to lose my virginity. But then I think about how sex has played factors in my life and I probably wouldn't have found exactly what I wanted if I never had sex before. I know I wouldn't have been confident enough to even talk to the guy I'm with now and that's the only reason we're together because I made a move on him first.

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http://www.xojane.com/sex/true-love-waits-pledge
Read this. I enjoyed reading it. If you feel as tho saving your virginity is important, then it's important. It's your choice, it's up to you.

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If you value that then yes it is important! I valued it, but unfortunately the choice was taken from me. I agree with E though. I don't think it's fair to shame someone for either choice. Everyone is entitled to do what they want with their body.