Can I ask him this?

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Is it ok if I ask my bf how many bodies (sexual partners) he's had before me or is it none of my business? I'm just wondering cause we've had unprotected sex before 😅

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To me- I say hell yeah. Ask away. If you are serious about each other- nothing should really be off limits. Then again, I'm married and we talk about ANYTHING.

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ALWAYS a good idea to know, especially for your own health! Just brace yourself, that discussion can get emotional. But definitely worth it.

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I'd say it's completely fine to ask. My so and I share everything. We've talked about past partners in just casual conversation sharing our pasts.

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You can ask if you want, but he doesn't have to tell you. Only if he's got an STI or not. It's best to get tested before having any unprotected sex.

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Ask him if it was before you then it shouldn't affect anything! I asked my boyfriend before

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If you think it won't hurt his/your feelings or you're concerned about STIs then sure. But personally it really really bothers me to know of his sexual history as I'm an extremely jealous person. If you feel this way just try to tell yourself that you can't hold it against him for sleeping with other girls before he met you l

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