My husband is an @$$hole

Tomorrow I have a big event going on at work that I have been preparing for for months now! I asked my husband to come and help me set up. He said no. Ugh! It's actually embarrassing. All of my employees spouses are coming to lend a helping hand as well as enjoy the event.. Except mine. He is the only one not going. 
I then ask him what the plan was for Sunday, hoping to make plans to hang out with him. My husband tells me he had a fantasy football draft at 7pm. So then I ask if that means he is free the rest of the day. He said no. So then I ask what else he has going on. He freaks out and goes "gosh damn it!! Stop! I do not want to hang out with you!! Okay?!?".  
I had to leave the room so he wouldn't see me cry. 
I don't get why I deserve an asshole for a husband.